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Travel and Packing Tips for Solo Female Travelers

Checklist for International Travel

Traveling internationally opens up a whole world of new adventures, but requires some advance planning to avoid glitches. Here’s a checklist to get you started:

√ Passport and Visa – Check the passport, visa, vaccination and other requirements for each country you will be visiting. I find the U.S. State Department has good information for U.S. travelers at https://travel.state.gov/content/passports/en/country.html  You can email the link to your phone so you have it if you need it. The information also includes embassy and consulate contact information. In addition, consider registering for the Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP) to alert the State Department where you will be traveling and to get updated information about the area you plan to visit.

√ Cash and Credit/Debit Cards – I typically travel with my primary credit card, a backup credit card, my primary debit card, a backup debit card from a different bank, and a reasonable amount of local cash and U.S. dollars. While most restaurants and many shops will take credit or debit cards, some smaller merchants prefer cash. Most larger international airports and cities have ATMs where you can get local cash when you arrive. If you want to bring foreign cash from home, your bank or AAA can get it for you (check the fees). Also, note the conversion rate or use an app to convert the price of the item to U.S. dollars so you can make an informed decision about the cost of items you want to purchase.

Make sure you notify the bank for each credit or debit card, and ask them to put a travel alert on your card so that the unusual foreign transaction will not be blocked. Although most credit card companies will send a text to your phone when blocking a transaction, if your phone is in airplane mode, you may not receive the text in a timely basis. The travel alert informs the bank that you will be traveling in certain areas and to expect transactions.

Many credit cards charge transaction fees, as well as currency exchange fees for transactions in another currency. When choosing the credit and debit cards you take for travel, you may want to choose the one what has the most favorable fee structure. Also, for all cards, make sure you know the numerical pin in case you need it.

Separate your credit cards and cash so you are only carrying what you need and lock the rest in your hotel safe, if available. Consider the use of money belts or other underclothing document carriers to make it harder for thieves to steal your cards and cash. Carry your account numbers and emergency contact numbers for all cards separate from your cards in case your card is stolen. I email scans of my cards and documents to myself before I leave.

√ Hold Your Mail – The USPS has an easy online feature to apply for a mail hold while you are away, and either arrange for mail pick up or deliver all the held mail when you return.

√ Pay Bills – Pre-paying bills that come due while you are away can save you the hassle of trying to pay a bill from afar and avoid late fees.

√ Prescription Drugs – Many experts suggest bringing a copy of the prescription and keeping the medication in the original bottle. However, be aware that a number of countries have prohibitions about entering the country with certain classes of medications such as those containing codeine, pseudoephedrine, morphine, dexamphetamine, among others. Check with the official travel website for each country you are visiting to determine restrictions and other requirements.

√ Transportation System – Learn about the local transportation system if you plan to use public transportation. Make note of how and where to buy tickets, and the process of validating tickets. Some areas use only kiosks and require a chip id to purchase tickets, and others sell tickets in newsstands and other stores. Many now use an app. Carefully note whether tickets need to be validated and whether validation is done before you board or after. Some countries fine you if you fail to validate your ticket.

√ Health Insurance – Check your health insurance policy to determine whether you are covered out of network and/or outside the U.S. Most regular policies do not cover medical evacuation, but this coverage is available through travel organizations like AAA and insurance companies, and may be part of a more comprehensive travel insurance plan. Note: Medicare does not cover medical expenses outside of the U.S.

√ Travel Insurance – Many travelers choose to purchase travel insurance which can encompasses trip cancellation, various losses due to trip interruption, lost luggage, delays, and certain emergencies. Travelers can cover individual trips or a period of time or limit coverage to certain risks. Talk to your insurance agent or search the internet for more information.

√ Cell Phone – Using a cell phone outside the U.S. is a blog post in itself. Most importantly, learn what service you have to avoid surprises, which can be quite expensive. I don’t travel outside the U.S. for enough days to warrant the cost of a full international plan. Typically, I put my phone on airplane mode when I get on the plane and then rely primarily on wifi to get email, internet, and texts. My cell phone plan allows me to have international coverage for certain countries at $10 per day, should I need full service or want to check for messages mid trip. If you need to make or receive calls consider apps such as FaceTime Audio or What’s App.

√ Luggage Scale – Many of the international airlines have different requirements for weight and dimensions of luggage. Luggage scales are relatively inexpensive and weighing your luggage can save you from overweight bag charges and the hassle of redistributing weight at the airport. For carryon information, Skyscanner has size and weight restrictions for cabin baggage for most airlines. Double check the size and weight (for both cabin and checked baggage) for your specific flight on the airline website.

√ Food – Some countries are very fussy about bringing food into the country. I often take my own food on the plane/train because I must eat gluten free. Knowing about restrictions in advance can avoid problems at the border.

Taking the time to go through this or a similar checklist can help your trip go more smoothly.  With less things to worry about, I have more time to enjoy my trip.

Day Trips To Canada From Maine

I have the good fortune to be able to stay with my brother-in-law and sister-in-law on the coast of northern Maine near Gouldsboro for a week each summer. This year I decided to take two separate day trips into Canada.

The first trip was to St. Andrews in New Brunswick. It was about a three hour easy drive up Route 1, crossing the border in St. Stephen (near Calais, ME), and back down the peninsula on the other side of the St. Croix River via Route 127 to St. Andrews. The primary attraction for the day in St. Andrews was the Kingsbrae Garden, which is a 27-acre public garden. Some of the areas include a sculpture garden where sculptures are surrounded by a coordinating garden, perennial gardens, rose gardens, formal gardens, scents and sensitivity gardens, sustainability gardens, peace gardens, and much more. Kingsbrae also has animals and children’s activities, plus a nice place onsite for a picnic lunch. There is a café with a terrace if you prefer more formal dining.

In addition to the Kingsbrae Garden, St. Andrews has a downtown area with shops, restaurants, and places to stay. Surrounded on three sides by water, area businesses offer whale watching, fishing, kayaking and other water adventures. St. Andrews is a great way to do a day trip into Canada from Maine. Make sure you have your passport or passport card with you.

A shorter day trip (about 2 hours) is to Campobello Island, also in New Brunswick. You may recall from the history books that Campobello was the summer home for President Roosevelt and you can tour the house and grounds in what is now Roosevelt Campobello International Park. To get there, take Route 1 past Machias, to Route 189 to Lubec, and then over the FDR International Bridge to the Border Crossing for Campobello Island (again, bring your passport or passport card). Route 774 runs the length of the island and is well marked for the attractions. The views throughout the island are beautiful.

My favorite part of Campobello Island is the Head Harbour Lightstation, which is at the far point of the island in Wilson’s Beach. This is the oldest surviving lighthouse in New Brunswick and is also known as the East Quoddy Light. The grounds are the classic rugged rocks and low trees for the area, and to get to the lighthouse itself you go up and down a series of metal ladders imbedded in the rocks and cross a beach that’s only accessible at low tide. Bring a picnic lunch to eat out at the lighthouse and enjoy the beautiful view. But, watch the tide, or you’ll be stuck out there until the next low tide.

On the way back, be sure to stop in Lubec, ME (the easternmost point in the U.S.) to see the West Quoddy Lighthouse. Also, stop at Monica’s Chocolates on Rt. 189 in Lubec for a special treat and Wild Blueberry Land on Route 1 in Columbia, ME to pick up a box of Maine blueberries and some of the best blueberry pie around.

Even when you are away from home, keep your eye open for interesting day trips from where you are staying. Often these side trips are inexpensive and a great way to explore new places.

 

 

Alternatives To Eating At Restaurants

Traveling on a budget can be a challenge in areas where restaurant eating is expensive. In addition, for those with food allergies or other eating considerations, finding alternative meal options can be very helpful.

Several years ago, I spent a couple of weeks in Switzerland, staying with family. I asked where the locals eat when they were traveling around Switzerland, and the answer was – the grocery store. Two of the largest chains, Coop and Migros, had cafeterias in their stores that offered a wide variety of meals and individual items that were freshly made and relatively inexpensive.

I began to observe that many grocery stores in the U.S., as well as other countries, had cafeterias as well. But most importantly, I began using the local grocery store (or in some areas, the more charming series of cheese, bread, sausage, wine stores, etc.) and local outdoor markets as my primary source of meals while traveling. I only go to restaurants occasionally or to sample special cuisine.

No longer was the grocery store just for snacks and bottled water! If the hotel room has a refrigerator, you can pick up items for a couple of days at a time. Here are some suggestions:

Breakfast – fresh fruit that’s already cut up, yogurt, various granolas and cereals (packaged and bulk), hard boiled eggs (they’re the brightly colored eggs in the dairy case in many stores), various baked goods, bagels and cream cheese, etc.

Lunch – Deli meat and cheese (fresh sliced or packaged), rolls and breads, fruit, bakery items, chips, cheese blocks, crackers, dried Italian salami (and others), prepackaged snack items. I often like to bring a lunch with me when I sightsee and find a place on site to relax and eat. Sometimes, eating lunch at a restaurant takes too much time away from sightseeing.

Dinner – Many stores have store prepared hot items, salad bars, and pizza. You can also get items for a picnic such as roasted chicken, potato salad, coleslaw, bread, and cheese. Almost every area has beautiful parks or gardens available to enjoy your picnic. Some areas also offer free concerts or street performers (buskers) in the evening to entertain you while you eat. One of my favorite meals in Paris was meeting up with a group of people for a picnic of cheeses, sausages, bread, fruit, and wine in a local park on a beautiful evening.

Eating is an important part of traveling and certainly experiencing local restaurant meals exposes you to some great cuisine. But if you are on a budget, and don’t want to eat all your meals at restaurants, you have other options in the local grocery store or neighborhood market.

 

Solo Trip to San Francisco – Summer 2017

In the last post, I shared what I took to San Francisco in my effort to pack light. This post covers some of the highlights of the trip.

With a backpack only weighing 12.5 lbs, navigating the airport and the long walk on my layover was a breeze. I opted to take the airport shuttle recommended by the hostel where I had reservations, but I was the fifth stop and an Uber for $5 more would have been better. However, I did get a good tour of the city.

For the first three nights, I stayed at Hostels International (HI) – Fisherman’s Wharf in Fort Mason National Park. Fort Mason is the port where soldiers shipping out during WWII for the Pacific (including my father) started their journey and is now a national park. The hostel is up on a hill overlooking the bay, with a view of the Golden Gate Bridge. The San Francisco Bay Walking/Bike Trail goes right by the hostel and runs along the bay for miles. It was a 15-minute walk to Fisherman’s Wharf, 20 minutes to Pier 39, and 40 minutes to the Ferry Building. Walking the other way was the Marina area, where hundreds of people were out walking, running, and riding bikes right along the water and once a week they have a Food Truck (and Booth) event called Off the Grid.

Every morning while at Fort Mason I ate breakfast at a picnic table overlooking the bay and every evening watched the sun set over the bay. Although crowded, there are lots of things to do. I went to the Aquarium, some Maritime Museums, and the Exploratorium, which is an amazing place with hundreds of hands on activities for both children and adults. At Pier 39, which is a large commercial area, seals hang out on the docks. I spent hours walking by the bay and roaming around the area. I was amazed at the access people have to the bay.

There is a free swimming area and one evening I watched the large area triathlon group practice their swimming. For people who want to take a boat out onto the bay, there are options both large and small. It seemed like every corner had a bike rental place, and there was tons of public transportation. In the evenings, I hung around the common room, talking with other travelers (many international) or participating in activities such as a Tai Chi class. I decided to decline the Bar Crawl Tour led by one of the hostel employees.

For the fourth through seventh night, I hopped a bus to HI-Downtown. Located in the old Hotel Gloster built in 1907 on Mason Street, the hostel was two blocks from Union Square. This hostel has a totally different vibe – much more urban with fun décor. The Powell Street trolley line ran down the hill on the next street over and of course, Union Square is the big shopping area. In addition, most of the hop on/hop off tour busses stop at Union Square. The hostel was also a couple of blocks from Market Street (and the big public transportation center) and the Ferry Building on the bay is an easy 25-minute walk. It’s a great location to use as a base.

I decided to buy a two day hop on/hop off bus ticket, which offered unlimited rides on four different tours of the city in open air busses. On the first day, I took three of the tours (1-2 hours each), including one that went over the Golden Gate bridge to Sausalito. The tour guides did a great job talking about the history of the area, the impact of the earthquakes, pointing out good places to eat and visit, and interesting stories.

On the second day, I got off the bus in the Golden Gate Park and visited the Japanese Tea Garden and the Botanical Gardens. The Botanical Gardens was having an exhibit called Flower Pianos, where twelve pianos were placed around the gardens and people were encouraged to play them. It was beautiful to walk around the gardens and listen to a variety of piano music. A short walk away was Haight-Ashbury, which was fun to wander through. When I was done, I just hopped back on the bus, and went off to the next place to explore. For my remaining days, I headed back to the bay area, stopping to watch the street performers, reading in the gardens by the water, people watching, eating ice cream, going for long walks, etc.

The highlight of my food finds was the gluten free bakery in the Ferry Building called Mariposa. They had great bread and baked goods, but also savory items like grilled vegetable and feta pockets and an amazing artisan salami sandwich with arugula and sun-dried tomato spread. Having to eat gluten free due to Celiac disease, I get very excited when I find a good gluten free restaurant. With a focus on fried seafood and sourdough bread, San Francisco is not the most gluten free friendly city. Mariposa was within walking distance from both locations (also on the trolley line) and come dinner time, I often found myself heading towards Mariposa.

Staying at the hostels cost me a rate (before hotel tax in the downtown location) of $47 – $65 per night. A light continental breakfast was included. The Fort Mason hostel had eight women in a room and the downtown room had four. I prefer the smaller rooms, but because you are primarily using the room to sleep, it really doesn’t matter that much. Both locations had great common rooms and good communal kitchens.

My advice if you want to try hosteling is to try it for 2 nights. That’s enough time to get a taste of what hosteling travel is like without the risk of ruining your entire vacation if it doesn’t work out. Hosteling isn’t for everyone, but I found that as a single female traveling alone, it provides me with great people to talk to and a sense of community I don’t get when staying by myself in a hotel. Considering the hostels in both locations were full, a lot of people seem to agree.

San Francisco for a Week – One Bag – 12.5 lbs!

 

In earlier blog posts, I’ve given you some tips for traveling light, but this post documents everything I took for a one-week trip to San Francisco in July (Temperature: 55 – 70° F).

The Bag

The bag I used was my Patagonia Lightweight Travel Tote Pack – 22L. The bag has two external pockets on each side of the pack. I needed to use that space, but was concerned that loose items might fall out. My solution was to make custom fitted stuff sacks out of some leftover rip stop nylon and cord I used in another project. These aren’t fancy and didn’t take long to make. I found some cord locks on Amazon that keep the bags closed. The bags stayed put for the whole trip, but if I was concerned, I could have used a strap around the bag to keep everything secure.

What’s in the Bag?

Large Packing Cube

1 pair travel pants
2 short sleeve tee shirts
1 merino wool lightweight quarter zip shirt
1 long sleeve blouse
1 lightweight long sleeve top
1 pair lightweight short pajamas
3 pair underwear
2 camisoles
1 travel bra
2 pair wool ankle socks
1 pair synthetic quarter length socks

 

In the Stuff Sacks for the Outside Pockets of the Tote

Flip flops
Clothesline
Small roll of duct tape
Extra plastic bags
Small umbrella
Fold up water bottle
Bandaids, small amount of toilet paper, stall mates wipes in small bag
Spork
Lightweight tote bag

Other Items in the Bag

Toilet kit
Fold up travel backpack
Travel towel
Lightweight rain jacket
Small cube – Flashlight, extension cord, sun glasses, charger cord
Hat
Small airline/hostel bag – gum, ear plugs, sleeping mask, Earplanes, tissues
Exterior pocket – Travel documents

 

What I Wore on the Plane

Underwear and socks
Walking shoes
Long sleeve tee shirt
Hoodie
Stretch jeans
ScotteVest – Phone, small wallet, extra cash, snack, small phone charger

 

Strategically pack the bag like a jigsaw puzzle – no wasted space. Write down how you did it or take pictures with your phone so you can do the same when you return home. There you have it! One bag, 12.5 lbs.

 

Convenience Items That Make Lightweight Travel Easier

If you look at any packing list, you’ll find several items that make traveling easier, but don’t take up much space. This blog post outlines a couple that I use.

Clothesline – If you are going to wash out underwear and other lightweight clothing during your trip, it helps to have some place to dry them. Lots of camping catalogs have small clotheslines and some people just use a piece of parachute cord. I treated myself to a Sea to Summit Clothesline that is a tiny, yet ingenious product. It’s essentially two strings threaded through a series of beads. After you affix the clothesline to something using the built-in hooks, you thread a small part of your garment between the two strings and slide the beads close together to hold the item. Use in the bathroom, on the hostel bunk bed, or balcony (or anywhere else) to hang up your quick dry clothes and travel towels. When you are done, the clothesline stuffs into its tiny pouch. Combined with Dr. Bonner’s soap, this is an easy way to reduce the amount of clothing and underwear you need to bring on your trip.

Lightweight polyester bags – Lightweight polyester or nylon bags like the one pictured take virtually no space but can be very useful. I use a medium sized one to use when picking up snacks or daily groceries for hostel meals. I use a larger one when staying in hostels. Before I go to bed, I put the clothes for the next day in the bag and when showering in the morning, I hang the bag on the door knob or door hook. There’s rarely a dry space for clothes in a hostel bathroom. Using the bag helps me keep everything dry and together so I don’t lose anything.

Hostel and Airplane bag – I use a lightweight stuff sack or a lightweight packing cube with a handle. On the airplane, I use it to keep my cellphone, charger, ear plugs, lip balm, tissues, eye mask, ear phones, mini-flashlight, pen, snack, e-reader, etc. either next to me in the seat, under the seat in front of me, or in the seat back pocket. It is all within easy reach, and I don’t have to worry about losing any of it. If I am staying in a hostel, I keep the items I want to have in my bunk in the same bag. If I need a tissue or ear plugs, I don’t have to get up and disturb anyone by unlocking my locker to get these items. Many hostel bunks have an outlet for charging electronics so it’s easy to read on the phone and charge at the same time. Just remember to turn off all the sound and vibration on your phone – whether it’s with you or in your locker before you go to sleep.

ScotteVest – I was able to pick up one of these multi-pocket travel vests on a deep discount for an old model and it can be a great help when you are tight for space and want to ‘wear’ what is essentially the airplane bag mentioned above. I wear it under a jacket or hoodie to try not to advertise that I am circumventing the carry-on weight limit for budget airlines or highlight that I am a tourist when I’m at the destination. However, used thoughtfully, these and similar vests keep your items secure and allow you to go hands and bag free when you want to. If I am travelling in minimalist mode, I either have to commit to wearing the vest whenever I change locations or leave it home because there isn’t room for it in my minimalist bag. Another nice advantage is that I can use the vest instead of a money belt. When the vest is zipped, articles in their own zipped pockets on the inside of the vest are reasonably well protected from pickpockets, but the vest allows for easy access to them. It also becomes a light layer for cooler weather.

Earplugs – Don’t leave home without them! I use two types. The first is Airplanes or generic version. These are for people who have trouble with their ears when flying and for me, they work beautifully. I no longer have severe ear pain and temporary hearing loss after flying. I wear them from take off until the plane reaches top cruising altitude and put them back in when the plane begins its decent. For short flights, I just leave them in. I have headphones with holes in the ear pads so I can watch a movie when they are in. I also use Hearos regular ear plugs. They are a must for hostels, but even nice hotels can be noisy. I can wear them a couple of times, but after that they get sticky from ear wax and don’t mold as well to your ear. I bring a few pairs for each trip.

Small Backpack – If you are traveling light – i.e. U.S. traditional carryon – adding a small backpack (such as this one by PacSafe) or folding travel backpack (mine is by Neatpack) either in the bag or as your personal item gives you a place to put your jacket, cell phone, snack, and travel information while you sightsee. If you are traveling minimalist with only one bag, just empty out the bag and use it for your day pack. If everything you have is in a packing cube or stuff sack, your things will still stay organized.

Each person’s packing list is a little different. Mine continues to evolve and changes slightly depending upon the circumstances. Try different items and you will find what works best for you.

 

Table For One – Tips for Eating Alone in Restaurants

Traveling solo often involves eating meals in restaurants by yourself. Many women (and men for that matter) feel awkward about going to a restaurant alone. I’ve found that many restaurants are quite solo friendly, especially if you follow a few simple suggestions.

First, think about what setting makes you the most comfortable. Many restaurants have several seating options:

  • The two-person table – this is a good option if you want to minimize interaction with others and you’d rather read a book or surf the net on your small electronic device. The extra room gives you more space to spread out.
  • Eating at the bar or long counter – I learned this trick when I traveled alone for business. Many restaurant bars have TVs tuned to different channels and are a good option for having casual conversations with those sitting on either side of you, or just catching up on the news or sports event. Ask if the bar area has a separate menu or whether you can order off the regular menu. Also, many bar areas have small tables in a casual setting that you can use alone or join another person.
  • Communal tables – This is my favorite option, where you share a table with multiple other diners, each on their own separate check. Just like at a family meal, you have multiple people to talk with or as an alternative, listen quietly to the conversations around you.

Secondly, try to avoid the busiest times. I find a late lunch or early dinner works well. The pace is slower and the servers are often more able to accommodate your request for a single table near the window or the patio. Keep in mind that lunch is a better value in most areas. As you stake out places to eat, ask about when the menu changes from lunch to dinner or about any early evening specials. Also, if you are trying to order in a different language and/or have questions about various dishes, the servers have more time to interact with you when you come at a less busy time.

Third, bring something to do to occupy your time while you are waiting for your meal if you are sitting by yourself. Bring a book, some tourist brochures, word or number puzzles, or simply surf the net or read on your phone. Many restaurants have wi-fi available. Some people use their computer on the table. If you choose to do this, make sure you’ve chosen a seating option that gives you enough room to do this without encroaching on your neighbor at the bar or counter.

Finally, because you are on your own, you can choose whatever courses you wish without worrying about impacting your fellow diners. Sometimes I’ll order one or two appetizers and dessert. Tell your server your plans and whether you want all your selections at once or sequentially.

Experiencing local cuisine is an important part of travel. If you are new to solo dining, try a few trial meals at your local restaurants to find out which approach is right for you.

 

Solid Toiletries – Ditching the 3-3-3 Bag!

Minimalist travel is all about taking just what you need and simplifying your travel. For me, this meant finding solid alternatives to liquid toiletries. Even with Pre-Check in the U.S., you still must pull out your liquids bag in some countries and in certain U.S. situations. Plus, no liquids means no leaking and often, less weight. I’ve been experimenting with different products and will share some of them here. Most stores don’t highlight solid items, so it’s helpful to do some internet research first and then go searching in the stores and online sites.

Shampoo and Conditioner – A disclaimer first – my hair is very short and easily washed. If you have longer hair you may need to find alternative products. Shampoo and conditioner come in various small bars. The key to using them is to keep the bars as dry as possible by letting them air out between uses. I cut off a piece or two big enough to last me for the specific trip and store these pieces in a metal or plastic small container. When possible I keep the lid off after use until these items fully dry. By using small pieces at a time, I don’t waste the product if the bar gets too moist and turns into goo. These bars tend to be expensive and this method allows me to get multiple trips out of a bar. I put the pieces of shampoo, conditioner, and soap in one small container to take into the shower.

For shampoo, I’ve tried Liggett’s Old Fashioned Bar Shampoo and Lush Lullaby Solid Shampoo. The Liggetts is more of a basic shampoo at fraction of the price of the Lush product. For conditioner, I’ve used the Bee Beauty Silky Hair Conditioner Bar. The Liggetts bar left my hair squeaky clean, but a bit stiff. Adding conditioner, I found that I had to use the Bee Beauty conditioner very sparingly or my hair would get sticky. It may be better suited to longer hair where you just swipe a little on the ends. My favorite is the Lush Lullaby shampoo, which is a gentle shampoo and leaves my hair soft enough to eliminate the conditioner. One product instead of two makes this minimalist traveler happy.

Moisturizer –The skin on my face is very dry and sensitive. I need to use moisturizer twice a day to keep the dryness at bay. Trying to find a solid alternative to moisturizing lotion proved to be a challenge. Honey House Naturals puts out a Bee Bar Hand and Body Lotion Bar, which uses the warmth of the hands to soften the bar sufficiently to get a film of lotion on the hands for application. Looking for something more face specific and finding little for adults, I turned to baby products. Babyorganics puts out an organic lip and face balm in a stick that works reasonably well for travel purposes.

Sun Block –This one is easy with lots of options. I’ve used the various sticks  from national brands. Target and other retailers have similar generic versions. Neutrogena  makes a sunscreen solid the size of a deodorant stick, but I wanted something smaller. These sticks are good for limited coverage for everyday activities, but probably insufficient if you are going to the beach or pool. If this is the case, it is easy to buy sun block on site. Because my nose easily turns into a beacon, I also use Badger Zinc Oxide Sunscreen All Season Face Stick. This product has a bit of a whitening effect, so I only use it when I’m in strong sun.

Soap –This is where those hotel sized soaps can be put to good use if you are staying somewhere that doesn’t provide soap (i.e. a hostel). Either take a small bar or cut a larger bar to meet your needs. I sometimes cut a chunk off of an organic olive oil bar (Felicity’s Handcrafted Soaps) I like to use because it is more soothing to my sensitive skin than regular soap. I also have a bar of lavender soap from our local farmer’s market (Ridge Runner Soap Co) that is great for travel.

In addition, I bring soap for washing out clothes. My preference is Dr. Bronner’s Pure Castile Liquid soap in a leakproof one oz bottle, but this doesn’t fit with my goal to eliminate liquids. Dr. Bonner’s makes a bar soap version of their Castile soap that works fine. I use this to wash out quick drying underwear and other clothing. I’ve had the best success with the following method, which can be done in the sink or the shower. Wet the garment and thoroughly soap up the trouble spots – crotch for underwear, armpits, spots, etc. Lightly soap up the rest and let the garment sit (and preferably soak) for a few minutes. Then rub lightly and rinse thoroughly, wring in a towel, and let dry.

Toothpaste – I definitely prefer regular toothpaste, but for a couple of weeks, can deal with an alternative product. Eco-Dent makes a Baking Soda Toothpowder that has enough mint flavor to cover the baking soda taste. Some people make their own toothpaste dots. The LadyLightTravel Blog has detailed instructions. I find they take a much longer time to dry than the instructions (at least for my brand of toothpaste). I store them in a very small plastic container and they work fine. The first batch I made were too big, and now I make them about the size of a chocolate chip. Dusting them with baking soda keeps them separated.

Makeup –Generally, the TSA allows lip balm (not lip gel), lipstick, and powder based makeup. I rarely use makeup, but do frequently use lip balm and keep one in my toilet kit and in my purse or backpack.

Other items – Badger makes an After-Bug Balm in a stick which helps with itch relief. Purell comes in individually wrapped travel wipes. Stall Mates makes individual wrapped flushable wipes. Olay and other brands make facial cleanser-infused dry towelettes that you moisten and use like a washcloth. Amazon and other vendors sell boxes of individual packets of antibiotic and cortisone gel (such as those in first aid kits), but I am not sure how TSA feels about these. I’m experimenting with taking a cotton swab and covering one end with antibiotic ointment and wrapping it tightly with foil. I haven’t needed to use them yet, so time will tell.

The first time I traveled liquid-free, I was hooked. The products worked well and not worrying about leaks was a plus.

 

 

Finding a Community on the Bike Trail (or Anywhere Else)

Sometimes traveling is about the destination, but it can also include learning how to view experiences through a different lens – even when you are not far from home. People who are considering traveling by themselves often have two major fears 1) the possibility that something bad will happen and 2) that they will be lonely and miserable. The first one is a topic for another time, but I’ve learned that with a simple shift in mindset, I can go a long way in mitigating the second one.

I live in Connecticut where we have miles and miles of ‘Rails to Trails’ bike/walking/running trails (see link). I try to ride my bike three times a week, weather and spirit permitting. The trail goes right near my apartment complex and I can just hop on and ride my typical 12 – 15 miles (round trip) in either direction. Nine-thirty in the morning is my time to ride and most of the people who are on the trail during the week at that time are retirees or stay at home parents, often on the trail by themselves. People for the most part are pleasant and we typically acknowledge everyone we pass with a ‘hello’ or ‘good morning’.

A recent Sunday morning was a particularly beautiful day – sunny, low 60’s, low humidity. I broke out of my ‘avoid the weekend crowds on the trail’ mindset and headed out for my favorite ride to the trail bridge over the Farmington River. Perhaps it was something in the air, but I think it was more my awareness was targeting the right things. I noticed:

  • The ‘hellos’ and ‘good mornings’ seemed cheerier and more heartfelt.
  • The man who was running while pushing a running stroller with a ten-year-old boy (give or take) who appeared to have Downs Syndrome. The boy was enthusiastically greeting everyone he passed. I’m not sure whose smile was broader – the man’s or the boy’s.
  • The man walking gingerly holding a newborn baby in a baby carrier, likely giving the new mother a few minutes of rest.
  • The person with the bike shirt covered with sponsors tinkering with a bike on the side of path that belonged to a woman my age who, like me, didn’t have a clue how to fix it.
  • The woman (likely 50 plus) on roller blades, who was approaching the intersection where I was crossing and shouted: ‘Is it clear?’ It was indeed and she flew by me. You go girl!
  • The younger person holding the traffic on the crossing busy street so the older couple could cross without hurrying.

I began to think about how the people on the trail that morning were a community. We greeted each other, shared time together, conversed, helped each other, and appreciated each other.

I’ve told people that one of keys to traveling solo is to learn to participate with others – in a sort of community – for even brief periods of time wherever you travel. It’s hard to be lonely when you’re part of a community. These quasi-communities pop up when you’re on a tour with others, eating dinner at a communal table, or sitting in the common area in a hostel or hotel. They are not meant to be permanent – just people sharing the same time, place, and experience.

People have asked me how to join one of these communities. The easiest way is to just say hello and begin a casual conversation. If the person doesn’t want to participate, find another person. But what I’ve come to realize is that sometimes just being with others doing similar activities can be a community. You don’t have to engage in a meaningful conversation.

That day, I said nothing more than a bunch of ‘Good Mornings’ and one exuberant ‘You Go Girl,’ but yet, I was truly part of the community of people on the bike trail that morning. It’s all a matter of perspective. When you are traveling solo or doing activities by yourself, you can perceive that you are all alone in a group of strangers or as an alternative, you are part of a group (a community) of people doing the same thing as you are.

When I used to travel for business by myself, I often felt lonely especially at night. I was determined to learn to travel comfortably and happily by myself. Now I look forward to each trip and focus on the sights I will see, the culture I will experience, and the people I will share this experience with in a progressive series of communities that form throughout my trip. A good place to practice forming your communities is at home. Try it the next time you are on the bike trail.

Hosteling After Age 60 – Yes, You Can!

Source: Sydney Harbour YHA

Inspired by a son who has stayed at hostels and another over 60 traveler I know, who stayed in a hostel for the first time and survived a 12-person co-ed dorm room, I was ready to give hostels a try. Newly retired, I wanted to travel more, but really couldn’t afford a lot of expensive trips.

An easy google search yielded a wealth of information about hostel groups, hostel apps, and enough tips to get me started. Although the focus of most hostels is geared towards the under 35 crowd, I found that Hostelling International (HI) welcomed seniors to their community. The hostels in their system are clean, well appointed, and located in good locations. I was traveling to Broadbeach in Australia to stay with a son who had rented a beach apartment for a business conference (yes there is a conference center in this beach community – genius!).

I decided to take a side trip to Sydney and HI had a hostel that intrigued me. Located in the Rocks Section near the harbor, the HI Sydney Harbour YHA was housed in a modern building, with clean bright rooms and a great communal lounge and shared kitchen. The building was on stilts, perched over an archeological dig and surrounded by historical buildings, plenty of restaurants and small grocery marts, and within easy walking distance of the major attractions. I opted for a 4 bed (2 bunk beds) all female room with an ensuite bath and individual lockers.

Fair warning – some hostels can be quite grubby. Hostelling International appears to have some good standards (at least from my experience so far) and has ratings for staff, cleanliness, location, security, service, comfort and green rating. A search site, Hostelworld (which has an app), also has good information. Trip Advisor review hostels in many areas. Although cost is important to me, I’m not interested in the cheapest option. I’m looking for good value that supplements, rather than takes away from my travel experience.

 My first roommates were women (aged 25-35) from Great Britain, Belgium, and Finland. The second night, the woman from Great Britain remained and we were joined by two college aged women from South Korea. For the most part, people did not hang out in their rooms, but either were out and about, or spent the evening in the common lounge. There was no shortage of people to talk with in the lounge and I soon realized that likely 25% of the people there were not what I would consider traditional users of hostels.

There were families (a private family room was cheaper than many hotels and provided access to the communal kitchen), others my age, one gentleman in his 80’s with another family member, and everything in between. People were sharing meals, information about things to do, and insights about life in their country and community. The second night I had a 3-hour conversation with my roommate from Great Britain and it was fascinating to hear her take on our recent presidential election, government sponsored health care, the EU, as well as some of the other places she had traveled on a shoestring.

Source: Sydney Harbour YHA

As I climbed into bed the first night, I had that feeling reminiscent of the first night of college, sleeping in the same room as strangers, but it was fleeting. The women the first night were very courteous (window open or closed, light left on or off in the bathroom, who had to get up and out in the morning, etc.).

The second night, the two younger women wandered in around 2 after clearly having more than a couple of drinks, zipped and unzipped their luggage no less than 30 times, and finally climbed into bed where one of them snored and ground her teeth so loudly it was painful to listen to. I found the value of good earplugs and soon was back to sleep after a busy day of sightseeing. The young women were still in bed when I left the room for breakfast the next morning.

Fortunately, I had read enough blogs to heed some suggestions on how to be a courteous roommate. Among them are 1) keep a flashlight in your bed so you can get into your locker without turning on the light, 2) lay out your clothes for the next day along with your toiletries so you can shower and get ready quietly in the bathroom, 3) keep the items in your locker organized so you don’t need to rummage, and 4) make sure your flip flops are handy because even though the bathroom was spotless, you want some protection for your feet.

Food is kept in an individual cubby in the kitchen or in a tagged bag in the refrigerator. Most people kept only small quantities of food to cover just the time there were there. The kitchen is well equipped with pots, pans, dishes, silverware, and utensils. Everyone is expected to clean up after themselves and for the most part, the kitchen was quite clean.

The enthusiastic people who worked at the hostel knew where everything was and a wall in the common area had all kinds of information on the area, things to do, coupons and discounts, and directions on how to get to places. They also served a bare bones breakfast from a small kitchen area and had a few other food items for sale.

Source: Sydney Harbour YHA

Many of the young people were traveling for some time, and carried huge backpacks with lots of extra possessions lashed to the outside, as well as regular backpacks worn as a front pack. As I watched them struggle under the load, I began to fully appreciate the concept of packing light. I had chosen to limit myself to a small bag (15 lbs) and a minimalist approach to avoid baggage charges, and I was hooked after experiencing how easy it was to travel with a small, light bag. My last day I went sightseeing after checkout, carrying all my possessions, without a problem.

After this positive experience, I knew hosteling would be part of my future travel plans.

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